Wednesday 27 August 2008

Letter to Supporters

To give two weeks of one lifetime does not seem much in the grand scheme of things. But within that short time span God can do so much, use you to help and change others, and use others to help and change you. Two weeks can pave the way for a transformed future.

If you’d have said to me a few years ago that I’d be heading out on a 14 hour journey to Africa on a mission trip in the summer of 2008, I probably would have laughed. I’d believe someone else may go, but not me. But July 30th 2008 I found myself standing in the check-in queue in Heathrow Terminal 3 along with 12 other blessed individuals, about to embark on a life-changing experience, heading out to Uganda to a small community called Makhai. God called, and we responded, just like in Isaiah (Isaiah 6:8: “Whom shall I send? And who will go for us?”). As a team we made the decision to say “here we are, send us”. And He did.

The two weeks that the small team from the UK spent in Uganda was incredible, meeting amazing people and seeing a side of life, that is how we should all be living. If I was to recount the whole trip we’d be well into next week so I’ll try and just highlight the main key points of my trip to you.

The most striking thing when you first enter a developing country is the sheer poverty under which the majority live. We take so much for granted; believe that what we see daily is “normal”. The reality is that the poverty that the team saw upon entrance to Uganda: the slums, the homeless; that is normal for about 2/3 of the world. Actually we, living in places such as the UK, are in the minority. Yet during our stay in the community, when we made home visits, we received the greatest welcome. Back home, being welcomed is sometimes not always a big custom, and we don’t appreciate each other as I have come believe we should. But there, where they don’t know us, they have nothing, and can offer us nothing, they welcome us. They thanked us for coming; they praised God for His bringing us safely to them; they loved us. The sincerity of these amazing, God-fearing people is just so touching; you almost sometimes just want to cry.Lesson #1 – Learn to appreciate what I have. God has blessed me with so many gifts!

Thinking back, the moment that most stands out in my memory as something I must share was during the church service on the first Sunday. Part way through the service the head of the church called for the tithe to be brought forward to the alter (below). Firstly I’ll say in this country, where we have plenty in comparison, we can often be reluctant to tithe, and where we feel we “must” we often keep to the 10% mentioned in the Bible. This purely is a guideline and does not include gifts either. Yet we grudgingly give only that. These people, who have nothing, give everything. They give of their first fruits, harvest that could be used to sell for money to feed their family, or even food to feed themselves, they give to the church in recognition that the harvest is only there through the provision of our gracious God. Not only this, but as they came to the front, children and adults alike had smiles on their faces, chattering, laughing. God loves a cheerful giver, and I truly believe that as they give back to God, He will continue to pour out His grace and blessings upon them, with good harvests like they have had this season (below). But though you were not there, and did not see this along side me, God allowed me to see and be touched, so I could come back and now I am telling you, as we can all learn from them.Lesson #2 – Learn to be a cheerful giver. God will bless me as I give back to Him!

Another major thing that I will always cherish from the experience, was the remarkable love and appreciation that the community has for family. The community itself is almost one big extended family, which the team was immediately accepted into, but also the individual families no matter how many members they contained. The most touching thing I could tell you about family is from our first day in the community. FH (the charity we went out with) has placed field staff within the community, to work with them and help them. One of these staff members was called Paul. He took us on a tour of the community and at one point called the team together and said, “I want to introduce my son,”. Now you wouldn’t think this as unusual, at least none of us did. Until he continued, “he is not my son by blood…” It was not this that caught my heart however, but the next sentence where Paul (below, right) said, “…But I love him very, very much”. In this country we have a tendency, especially the younger generations, of not wanting to have any connection to our families, often not even wanting them to meet our friends etc. Yet here, where Kenneth (above, left) was not even his biological son, Paul introduced him as the son he loved “very, very much”. There is no way I can put into words what this did to me. I can’t get out on paper the emotions and feelings that I had, and still have even thinking back to it.

Lesson #3 – Learn to appreciate my family. God put me in it for a reason!

Every morning we spent time in worship, lead by David (below, left) and Ian (below, right) and also prayer as a team and with the staff members. Growing together, teaching each other, doing daily devotions and just in general spending time in God’s presence. Through this I have a greater hunger for the word, a spiritual need to take in daily the bread of the word, much more then I used to. During the stay each team member had time to themselves as well as the fellowship together, and through this I have learnt a lot and brought so much back with me, including a better spiritual ear to listen to the guidance of the Holy Spirit and the voice of my heavenly Father.
The FH field staff were simply marvellous, always watching out for us, ensuring we had enough to eat, were in good health and were well rested. We had fresh fruit with every meal and never ran out of safe, bottled drinking water. I thank God for each of them and continue to pray even as they begin to prepare for the departure from the community next year that He will pour his blessing into their lives as they sacrificed so much to bless us.

There is so many stories that I could tell you, so much that I want to be able to express that would take a lifetime to get down into words. For someone to truly understand, I think you’d have to have a similar experience yourself but I hope that the above has given you a glimpse into the awesome time that I had during my stay in Makhai. I learnt so much, and grew so much and just… it was simply the best experience I have ever had.

Finally I simply want to say WANYALA NAABI!! That is, I want to thank each of you who will be reading this, for your support both financially and also in prayer. It was your support that helped make this wonderful trip a reality, and I think I speak not only for myself in saying that the memories that were made out there will be cherished in our hearts and theirs for the rest of our lives.

My prayer is that as you blessed us, that God may continue to pour out His mercy, love and blessings upon your lives. May his glory and power be continually evident in everything you do, and in everyday of your lives’.
“May the Lord bless you, and keep you; The Lord make His face shine upon you, And be gracious to you; The Lord lift up His countenance upon you, And give you peace.”
- Numbers 6:24-26
Amina (Amen).

Tuesday 26 August 2008

God is Good!

God is good?
All the time!
All the time?
God is good, and that is His nature!

"The Lord God, merciful and gracious, longsuffering, and abundant in goodness and truth"
- Exodus 34:6

This was something that the school children would chant with the staff. (Staff: God is good? etc) It was so sweet but also amazing to see. They actually knew it, believed it, meant it and were so sincere...

Saying Goodbye

Actually was one of the hardest things I've ever had to do. The last night was spent with the staff, Kenneth (See "I Miss Them..." blog) and Cez (Kenneth's mate) dancing and singing and generally having a good laugh. The whole team (above) was almost in tears as we realised it was actually coming to and end. The circle of love (below) was the thing that stopped us from crying. A few of us, close to tears, put our arms around each other, gradually everyone joined in and we began swaying together. No one quite knew why we did it but it was really rather amusing and we all ended up in fits of laughter.

Momentary Madness=D


See, we did have moments where we could just mess about and be silly and have a good time together. Here we decided to jump on the table. Rob was standing on the table holding the camera above us. GREAT FUN!!
Not all just building, crafting and teaching. We did get loads of time to chill out and spend with the team. Which was good and we became really close, playing cards and just have general chats about everything and nothing!

Pit Latrine

Our practical part of the trip was helping to build the pit latrine. The hole was already dug once we arrived, they just had a few feet left to dig. Soon the foundations were being laid and we were seeing this building rising before our eyes. The final pit latrine had 6 toilets, 3 on one side, 3 on the other. It was incredible that in just one week we had seen a building erected. We did get to lay a few bricks but mostly our job was simply to carry bricks over to the construction site. Although this was a bit disappointing the best way to (and the way that we chose to) look at it is that it is better that they now have the skills to be able to build and construct and that we are slaving away, rather then vica verca, which in the past has been how it was as they were uneducated and so we (people from the UK) did the building and constructing while they slaved for us.

Craft Day

This is the craft day that we ran on the saturday. A suprising amount of children turned up for it. During the course of the day we made crosses and sang songs such as "Blessed be the Name of the Lord" and "Head, Shoulders, Knees and Toes". It was great fun and the children treasured the crosses. It's amazing the things that we take for granted. They were so amazed by, and treasured having these simple crosses made of two coloured lollypop sticks and glitter. How ungrateful can we be when we have so much, and they appreciate something that we almost certainly throw away without thinking.

Learning Lugisu

Wanna know what they're all looking at? It's ME! LOL
Yep, I sat on the floor and a few gathered around and began teaching me words in Lugisu.
They wanted me to count to ten. (UH, yea right!) and as it got funnier (i'd get so far then remember the first few) more and more gathered!!
I know 1 - 5.

Ndwela
Tsibila
Tsitaru
Tsine
Tsirano


but that was about as far as i could get. They found the whole thing rather hilarious to be honest :P

Tsisebe
Musafu
Shenane
Sheda
Likhumi

See I did learn them in the end :P just took me a while.
And yes. I do remember them. I jus did that off the top of my head (which probably means they're spelt wrong :P)

A few days later they also taught me their favourite song in Lugisu. I had previously learnt it in English as follows:

My God is good, I lift Him higher. Everywhere I will go, I lift Him higher.
I lift Him higher, I lift Him higher, I lift Him higher, I lift Him higher,
Everywhere I will go, I lift Him higher!

The Lugisu version I will attempt to type up for you, but it's better when sung, I promise! =D

Wele wasi umulayi, kenne muste angachi. Nabulio Siasinsa, kenne muste angachi.
Angachi, angachi, kenne muste angachi.
Nabulio Siasinsa, kenne muste angachi.

The Kingfisher Safari Resort


Ohhhhhh yea!!
The last day we stayed at this amazing resort in Jinger called the kingfisher Safari Resort. It was amazing. I got my own room (YESS!!) with a double bed, running water, flushing toilet and WARM shower. AND there was this pool. The bit in this photo is the small part. To the right is even more of it... SO GOOD.

p.s. look closely i'm at the top of the slide in a pink and aqua tankini ;)

2007 and 2008 Tees



These are the two team t-shirts.
The navy one our tee, Uganda 2008 team. "Trust steadily in God, Hope unswervingly, Love extravagantly." 1 Corinthians 13:13
The brown one was last years', Uganda 2007 team. "Live a life of love just as Christ loved us"

Kitchen Crew ♥

I spent a lot of time in the "Kitchen" (above: a sort of bamboo shelter) helping out with the meals. The amount of work that daily went into cooking for us was immense, think - they get up at 6 (which I did some mornings to help) for breakfast, the plates and that come back, get washed up (mostly the team helped with that, thank goodness) and then they'd be starting lunch. The plates and that come back again to be washed and cleaned while dinner preperation begins. Talk about a lot of work and sacrifice of time. Below is the kitchen "crew", my best mates who I became very close to and shared a lot with, as they did with me.

Juliet: Kampala FH Staff Member, Anna: spoke no English, but understood quite a lot, Me, Vicky: who shared so much with me and taught me a lot as well as translating Anna for me :D and Miriam: amazing dancer and brilliant bright, bubbly personality :D

Traditional Dress


They may look remarkably not, but they were actually really comfortable! NO JOKE. The only issues we had was that a) they were realllly long and b) you get SO hot!
But we had a good laugh coz the guys had to wear dresses with a blazer. HAHAHA LOL

I Miss Them...


It's the weirdest thing thinking that I may never see them again (on this earth). I miss them so much and looking through the pictures is both nice and hard... It's great to think of the memories, but hard to feel how much I miss being there, waking up to help and see them. Spending time each day getting to know them better, sharing stories, hope for the future...

This is Kenneth Wekesa (Wesley & Linell). He was amazing, spoke practially perfect English and we became such good mates. Miss him :(
He wanted to know everything about me and what England was like, the weather, the towns, the sights etc. What good universities are like and where they are in England. Where I wanted to go, what I wanted to study. He wants to become a social worker, study at the university in Kampala (capital of Uganda). He's doing his GCSEs in ..hey school year is diff to ours) even though he turns 18 in Sept.
He was such a happy guy, with a lovely, friendly, bubbly personality... even though his mom died when he was 5 months old, his dad left and lived with a new wife in a different community a long way from him and he'd grown up with his grandparents.
These people all have stories to tell. Yet they are the happiest, friendliest most welcoming people you'll ever meet.
I was speechless.
Such amazing friendships were built up during the time that I was in Makhai, and though I may not return to see those that I became good friends with such as Kenneth, Miriam, Vicky, Carol and many others, I know that through God's spirit we will remain together in prayer, memories and always on each other's hearts.

Theresa!


This is the oh so crazy, oh so loveable head teacher. SHES INSANE!! But ♥love her!! Her name was Theresa and she was the lady that called me Natsekho. This photo was taken after she'd rushed up to me shouting "Ahh, my Natsekho! My Natsekho!" SO funny =D

Sunset Crew!


This was probably the most insane thing I've ever done. Well... close to anyways.
Ill.
Get up at FIVE IN THE MORNING to see the sunrise.
Guess what?
It didn't start till about 6:20 and the sun finally came over the hill at 7.
I MUST BE MAD

Twins! (& Notes on Homevisits)


This was the last homevisit we did on the trip. They were so welcoming, at every house we went to, they'd say "Wele assimiwe" meaning praise God, welcome us and thank us for coming. I've never seen anybody so happy to see someone else, they didn't know us, and they could offer us nothing, but they still welcomed us and loved us, just because we came.
The babies in the picture (above) were the sweetest twins you ever did see! One was very outgoing, came and shook our hands (while bowing - a sign of respect by all the women of the community) where the other was very quiet and shy (left).

CDP Home Visits


Left to Right:
Livingston (FH Field Staff Member), Sam[antha], Me, Ian (aka Giant Joy Boy), David, CDP Monitors Eldest Daughter, Paul #1, CDP Monitor, Charlene

CDP = Child Development Programme.
The guys job is to go through his section of the community, make sure the children are in good health, have all the equipment etc they need and are attending school.
In front of us are all his kids. No joke, their all his, including the eldest who is standing at the back next to him

Carrying Bricks


This was amazing.
Their break time, the time where they could be playing, chilling in between lessons they came and helped us carry bricks for the pit latrine.
They didn't mind either. They chose to do it, and they did it cheerfully, smiling and laughing!!

Home Visit Cutie


He was the cutest little boy ever!
Wesley became quite fond of him as he followed our half of the team on our home visits.
ISN'T HE JUS ADORABLE?! XD

Pierre the Cow

Ahh, the friendly neighbourhood cow. During our stay this cow was moved to various grazing spots, Rob (youth minister) got quite friendly, having mooing matches with it =D hehe... kids of the community found him amusing, the team jus thought he was weird :P